<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892</id><updated>2011-11-28T09:17:25.524+08:00</updated><category term='childhood'/><category term='parenting'/><category term='parenting conflict'/><category term='blogging'/><category term='money sense'/><category term='handling tantrum'/><category term='discipline'/><category term='spanking'/><category term='play'/><category term='kids'/><category term='stressfree'/><title type='text'>A Domestic Diva's take on Writing</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-43465678345681710</id><published>2010-07-22T22:30:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2010-07-22T23:01:10.256+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='childhood'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stressfree'/><title type='text'>Stressfree Childhood - Is it possible?</title><summary type='text'>PARENTING 
Don't we all just love to be able to be a kid again? After all, being a kid simply means having a carefree life - happy with nothing to worry about. No bills, no mortgages only happiness.
Now, if only the above statement holds true in this current world we live in. Those days, as a child, the only stress I encountered was learning to tie my shoe laces. Try as I might, I always get them</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/43465678345681710/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=43465678345681710' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/43465678345681710'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/43465678345681710'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/07/stressfree-childhood-is-it-possible.html' title='Stressfree Childhood - Is it possible?'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/TEgN8SO6BpI/AAAAAAAABrk/YfXvEvYkVs8/s72-c/happy.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-730748145896219959</id><published>2010-06-09T21:35:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2010-06-09T21:35:02.241+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting conflict'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><title type='text'>Parenting Conflict</title><summary type='text'>PARENTING
When my son was born he was not delivered with a user manual attached to him. My husband and I went through endless trials and errors raising him and we are still learning. It can be quite an adventure - rewarding one moment, challenging the next split second. 
Raising a child is no different from marriage; it is all about give and take. Playing the role of a co-parent is no easy task. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/730748145896219959/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=730748145896219959' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/730748145896219959'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/730748145896219959'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/06/parenting-conflict.html' title='Parenting Conflict'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/TA-XcoVRuYI/AAAAAAAABec/jUYBjWA3CnU/s72-c/parenting+conflicts.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-1627788675937069861</id><published>2010-05-26T21:03:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2010-05-26T21:06:38.294+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='spanking'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='discipline'/><title type='text'>Spare the rod and spoil your child?</title><summary type='text'>PARENTING 
 
To spank or not to spank?
It is an age-old question. I would love to tell parents not to spank their child but I can't, because to discipline a child we need to look at the complete picture. But what I like to say is if you need to spank, please do so only on the bum or hands; never hard enough to leave scars or unsightly marks of your handprint or the rod. Handprints are meant to </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/1627788675937069861/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=1627788675937069861' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/1627788675937069861'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/1627788675937069861'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/05/spare-rod-and-spoil-your-child.html' title='Spare the rod and spoil your child?'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/S_0b7LQhLuI/AAAAAAAABaM/LahNZHKooeM/s72-c/spanking.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-6886636602378500890</id><published>2010-05-18T11:03:00.004+08:00</published><updated>2010-05-18T11:05:30.486+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='play'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><title type='text'>Play</title><summary type='text'>Engage, interact and just have fun!

“Play allows children to use their creativity while developing their imagination, dexterity, and physical, cognitive, and emotional strength. Play is important to healthy brain development. It is through play that children at a very early age engage and interact in the world around them. Play allows children to create and explore a world they can master, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/6886636602378500890/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=6886636602378500890' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/6886636602378500890'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/6886636602378500890'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/05/play.html' title='Play'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/S_IC--D2nDI/AAAAAAAABYI/jp1sLP0Tlzc/s72-c/play_180510.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-9188267658611555386</id><published>2010-05-17T18:04:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2010-05-17T21:53:51.295+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='kids'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='money sense'/><title type='text'>Money Sense In Kids</title><summary type='text'>PARENTING

Making sense to the monetary world to the kids
I don’t remember at what age money first fascinated me. I do remember though that I was always on the look out for coins on the ground. The joy of discovering them was just priceless; not that I could do much with them though.
Kids these days have it better than us. They are often pampered with luxury but I try not to splurge on my kid. I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/9188267658611555386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=9188267658611555386' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/9188267658611555386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/9188267658611555386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/05/money-sense-in-kids.html' title='Money Sense In Kids'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/S_DACYi47bI/AAAAAAAABYA/mgNGXaROcdY/s72-c/money_sense_in_kids_140510.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-7044155922814778988</id><published>2010-05-13T00:12:00.002+08:00</published><updated>2010-05-18T11:09:26.040+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><title type='text'>An IT illiterate's journey on blogging...</title><summary type='text'>Blogging

Before I started blogging about one and a half years ago, I never know we can start a blog for free. I always thought that to blog, we need to pay for a domain and hosting. You see, back then none of my friends are bloggers, or so I thought!

I stumbled upon blogger.com by chance. I tried signing up for an account and was surprised to see how easy it was to start a blog! I then started </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/7044155922814778988/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=7044155922814778988' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/7044155922814778988'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/7044155922814778988'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/05/it-illiterates-journey-on-blogging.html' title='An IT illiterate&apos;s journey on blogging...'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_FODUNkObO7c/S_IEV1AIlvI/AAAAAAAABYQ/WMzsSIcQ7no/s72-c/it_illiterate_180510.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4375290078709037892.post-7093325694932884091</id><published>2010-05-09T23:29:00.003+08:00</published><updated>2010-05-10T11:35:08.966+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='handling tantrum'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='parenting'/><title type='text'>Handling Tantrum</title><summary type='text'>PARENTING 

Many parents find disciplining a toddler to be a very difficult task. Some would take the 'easy' way out by resorting to military style disciplining. Unfortunately this method usually only involves a one-way communication where the parents dictate and the toddlers listen, or rather are forced to listen.

The more patient parents will use various methods of disciplining a toddler. </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/feeds/7093325694932884091/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=4375290078709037892&amp;postID=7093325694932884091' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/7093325694932884091'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4375290078709037892/posts/default/7093325694932884091'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://merryn-tan.blogspot.com/2010/05/handling-tantrum.html' title='Handling Tantrum'/><author><name>Merryn</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06959187540409322635</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FXLTjPky2D8/Tbq3zNjqHhI/AAAAAAAADpE/On4Cjxwx5Hk/s220/Darling%2BGAP.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry></feed>
